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The God Who Mothers

By Shannon Scott

May 7, 2026

There’s a moment in Isaiah 49 where God is speaking to a people who believe He’s forgotten them. They’ve said it out loud: “The Lord has forsaken me; my Lord has forgotten me.” And rather than respond with a theological argument, God answers with a question.

“Can a mother forget her nursing child? Can she feel no love for the child she has borne?”

He reaches for the most instinctive, fiercest, most costly love available in human experience. And then He says: Even if that were possible, I would not forget you.

That’s not sentimentality. That’s theology. And it tells us something important about how God wants to be known.

We’re comfortable with a lot of the images Scripture uses for God. King. Shepherd. Rock. Father. These are familiar, and they’re true. But Scripture also gives us maternal images for God, and we tend to move past them quickly, as if they’re poetic flourishes rather than genuine revelation.

They’re not flourishes. They’re windows.

When God wants to communicate the depth of His attentiveness, the intensity of His longing, the tenderness of His presence, He reaches, more than once, for the image of a mother. And if we slow down and actually look through that window, we find something that changes how we understand Him.

The Intensity of His Longing

Isaiah 42:14 is not a gentle verse. God says:

“I have held back. I have been quiet and restrained myself. Now I will cry out like a woman in labor.”

A woman in labor is not composed. She is fully present, fully engaged, her whole body oriented toward bringing new life into the world. There is nothing passive about it.

And that is the image God chooses to describe His longing for His people. Not a ruler patiently waiting for subjects to return. A mother, desperate and determined, unwilling to stay silent any longer.

Many of us carry a picture of God as fundamentally unmoved, sovereign and steady, but not particularly urgent about us. Isaiah 42 disrupts that. God moves toward His people with intensity. He is not waiting for us to get ourselves together before He engages. He is already crying out.

The Tenderness of His Presence

Hosea 11 gives us a different texture. God reflects on His relationship with Israel and the image shifts from labor to early childhood.

“I led them with cords of human kindness, with ties of love. I lifted the yoke from their neck and bent down to feed them.” (v.4)

This is a parent on the floor. Eye-level with a child still learning to walk, still needing someone to bend down and meet them where they are. Not standing at a distance issuing instructions, but close, hands-on, doing the patient work of guiding someone through the unsteady stages of learning to stand.

The tenderness doesn’t disappear when the relationship gets hard. Even in a chapter where God’s people have repeatedly turned away, He asks: “How can I give you up?” It persists.

The God Who Searches

In Luke 15, Jesus tells three parables in a row about what God does when something beloved is lost. We know the shepherd who leaves the ninety-nine. We know the father who runs down the road. But the parable in the middle deserves its own attention.

A woman has ten coins. She loses one. She lights a lamp, sweeps the entire house, and searches until she finds it. When she does, she calls her neighbors together to celebrate.

Jesus says: “In the same way, there is joy in the presence of God’s angels over one sinner who repents.”

That woman, searching, persistent, unwilling to settle for nine when she had ten, is the picture of God. Jesus places her image right alongside the shepherd and the father. She is not an illustration about human faithfulness. She is a window into divine pursuit.

God searches. He lights the lamp. He sweeps the whole house. And when He finds what He was looking for, He celebrates.

What Motherhood Puts On Display

All of this brings us back to the mothers in our lives, and to why motherhood is worth more than a brunch and a card.

Motherhood, at its truest, puts the character of God on display in the world. Not perfectly, because no human love is, but genuinely. When a mother stays up through the night, something of God’s all-night presence is visible. When she bends down to a child’s eye level and meets them in their small, unsteady world, something of Hosea 11 is playing out in real time. When she searches, advocates, refuses to give up on someone everyone else has written off, she is reflecting the image of a God who does exactly the same thing.

Every mother who has loved well, even imperfectly, has been a living portrait of something real about who God is. And the very best love we’ve received from the mothers in our lives is still only a glimpse of something greater.

“As a mother comforts her child, so I will comfort you.” — Isaiah 66:13

So we celebrate the mothers who have given us glimpses of Him, in their presence, their persistence, their tenderness, their willingness to bend down and meet us where we are.

And we worship the God whose love outlasts, outreaches, and outdepths every beautiful version of it we have ever known.

He is the one who reaches for the most instinctive love humans know and says: Mine goes further.

He is the God who mothers.

And that is worth celebrating.

Meet Your Teacher
Dr. Joel Muddamalle
Director of Theology and Research

Dr. Joel Muddamalle holds a PhD in theology and serves as the director of theology and research at Proverbs 31 Ministries. He is a co-host of the Therapy & Theology podcast with Lysa TerKeurst and licensed counselor Jim Cress, and he also serves on the preaching team at Transformation Church in Indian Land, SC. He is the author of The Hidden Peace: Finding True Security, Strength, and Confidence Through Humility. His new book, The Unseen Battle—a book on spiritual warfare and the gods of the nations—is out now.

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